It Doesn't Seem Fair - Why Do They Conceive So Easily, But Not Me
- Lisa Gallarini

- Jul 9, 2025
- 3 min read
I imagine there has been a lot of heartbreak and tears around this subject. If I could hug each one of you individually, I would. Instead, just imagine I'm sending swirling light that spins around you creating warmth, healing, and love all the way through your body covering every single cell. Can you feel it? Energy is REAL.
Age-related issues are always mentioned, but I was 34, 35, and 37 with my last 3 children. I was walking, eating nutrient dense foods, and laughing! I BELIEVED! I went through perimenopause at 42. I was one of those who had short cycles, every 24 days. So my eggs went fast. I have had women conceive in their 40's and a few in their 50's. I'll be honest, I'm 52 and a new baby is not in the cards at this age. I'm ready to stick my toes in the sand and let the wind blow my hair.
Hormonal balance is the issue I see the most and I find that what I offer in my online course is very beneficial to this. It is in NO WAY cookie cutter. I realize you are all different, have different lifestyle, and needs. This is where you MUST be part of the team in making decisions and finding answers. Using your NUTRITION INTUITION to nourish your beautiful body and soul.
Lifestyle and Environmental Factors are another one I see. My mom smoked while she was pregnant with me, go figure. I do not smoke at all. I also offer a Smoking Cessation Hypnosis package if you are interested. Whether you want to have a baby or not, you probably should consider going smoke-free. Saves you money and your lungs will be thankful. I want you to want it!! That's the key to hypnotherapy.
High stress-levels can seriously impact your chances to conceive. That is also where hypnotherapy comes in. I also offer sound-healing or invite you to find a local sound healing journey near you. We are made of mostly water and sound releases stress and heals the soul. The right sort of sound, that is.
Weight - being over or under can affect your chances. I will tell you this...I was over 200 pounds and in my mid-30's when I conceived my 3 teens. But, I was healthy. That is what we have to find out. Are you healthy?
Diabetes, PCOS, or Thyroid Disorders - I am not medical doctor, but I have seen amazing results when you find the right nourishment for this condition. We just need to get you to that healthy place. I always say, do it for YOU.
Things that a course like mine will not help:
Genetic Factors - some women have genetic variations that affect hormone production, egg quality, or other aspects of reproduction.
Male Factor Infertility - this accounts for about 30-40% of fertility issues. Always make sure to rule out your partners health. Once ruled out, men also need to reduce stress and eat nutrient dense foods.
Structural Factors in the reproductive system can impact fertility. You need to rule out fibroids, endometriosis, and blocked fallopian tubes. There may be anatomical issues that prevent fertilization or implantation.
The key is finding out where you are on your journey. You should eat healthy, and take care of your mind, body, and soul no matter what journey you are on! Finding a supportive team of medical workers and coaches is key. Interview them, make sure they are there to support you in your decisions and not make the decision for you.


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